(Continuing from this video here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tBfrG5aMWj0)
Here is my experience in 1989 with my British grandfather, 15 years after the grandparents’ deaths in 1974.
It strengthened me for the divorce hell I was about to undergo just as I feared, and gave me a sense of a higher and loving power watching over me,but not babying me, in my subsequent career.
The seer, Ann Gehman, the subject of two HBO documentaries (https://www.facebook.com/B- Anne-Gehman-792310214169769/), described my grandfather to a “t” and said he was right in the room with me. It was scary, but in a good way, to realize I was being watched….by a very strict but loving ancestor, whom I had revered during his life, and who had tried to talk to me about race despite my liberal Republican/country club upbringing. He planted seeds in the boy that sprouted in the man.ann gehman, hjbo,